My friends house is a mess and I don't want to g there anymore. Should I call the state services?

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Okay this is a really hard decision to make. This friend I have known for almost 13 years. We both have 2 year olds close in age. She doesn't have a lisense so I go to her house. We have gone on walks and stuff but I live where most of the year is cold. I have been to her house only 4 times since weve had our kids and I am honestly done going there. I can't stand it. Her and I aren't best friends but shes a good friend. When I go to her house as soon as I walk in the smell hits me. It's like Vomit and cigarettes. She has people come in threw the back door which leads you threw the kitchen. The kitchen floor is supposed to be a creamy white. the entire thing is almost black its so dirty. They have bags of garbage piled up in their kitchen dishes piles up in the sink and counters with food still left on. Beer cans and bottles laying around some on the floor. Then you make your way to the living room where they have 3 cats 2 which are boys and have sprayed their couches, and 2 dogs. Any time I have come over those cats and dogs are inside. I have never seen them leave the house. Her carpet is filthy dirt and animal hairs cover both the floor and seating (I know that is bound to happen when you have animals but its so bad i cant breath). She has told me her vacuum is broken everytime I come over. Theres dirty dishes everywhere clothes on the couch where the animals lay around on and its just so nasty. I feel bad for her son and this is the reason I am posting this. She still sits him in his high chair for meals. I know this because when I went there about a month ago it still had food on it from lunch ad i was there at 3. The bathtub has thick black gunk that looks like mold and dont even get me started on the toilet. I dont know what to do. I can no longer bring my daughter over there to play in that filth. I always end up leaving shortly after I come there because my eyes burn and i can hardly breath. Shes been inviting me over and ive turned her down the last few times. I don;t know what to do. I dont want to avoid her like this but I dont want to go there anymore and I cant bring myself to tell her the reasons. Please help me. I am not sure if I should call the state and have them step in I would hate to do that to her but I feel for that child. This isnt an abuse situation but it seems more like neglect.

Asked in Arts & Humanities - 271 days ago

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